Monday, February 27, 2012

Ah! Saratov...


It is 9 pm on Monday here in Saratov.  It is hard to believe that it has only been one week since we left on our adventure, because it feels we have had more adventures than days in country.  I think Karen and I are just beginning to come to terms with where we are and what life is going to be like for the next 6 months.

What we have and what we once had...


Moscow
While Moscow was essentially a brief stop for paperwork, it turned out to be significant in our welcome to Russia experiences.  The first reason is that Karen and I were quickly convinced that we will not be doing a lot of driving here in Russia.  My first clue that we will not drive was when, while walking, I came to an intersection in Moscow and literally could not figure out how to cross the road;  traffic signals are apparently optional here for drivers and we will not be here long enough to really learn traffic customs.  While not being able to cross a street was pretty humorous in retrospect, our trip to the US Embassy was just short of terrifying.  Our driver missed his turn off of a major thoroughfare, did not realize it for half a block and then decided to not just drive around the block.  No, the driver decided the best thing to do in this situation was to put the car in reverse and work his way back up a major thoroughfare in the tail end of rush hour.  This would have been the most terrifying moment of the trip had I not experienced the takeoff of our flight from Moscow to Saratov.

The takeoff of our flight from Moscow to Saratov left me dreaming of a nice train ride.  While the plane was accelerating, the thing shuddered three times as it was gaining speed and it was unnerving.  Think somewhere between a “hop, skip and a jump” and “up, up and away” and you will start to get the feeling of what it was like to be on the plain.  Once the thing actually got in the air, a high pitched scream from the frame greeted us while we climbed to altitude.  Neither of these events seemed to even catch the local’s attentions, so I figured we were pretty safe.  And, well, we landed an hour later in Saratov, still intact.  Combine this experience with Karen’s previous experience of passengers yelling at the pilot and one quickly realizes it is not Delta out of JFK.  Here’s hoping for nice train rides out of here.

Saratov

Ah, glorious Saratov!  We made on Wednesday in the late evening and were greeted by a winter wonderland.  I know! I know!  Winter in Russia, shocking!  However, it has been a really long time since I have seen winter like it is here.  The snow is like the snow in my hometown of Steamboat; it comes often, it comes in large amounts and it is a light powder.  The result of this ever present snow is an area that is often quite beautiful, but it also helps hide some of the mire that permeates the city.  It is unnerving to be looking at a building from afar that appears interesting only to find it has been abandoned and left to rot.  Saratov is somewhere in between gorgeous and a town down on its luck.

Since we have been here, we have had a couple of distinctly Russian experiences.  The first day we were here, Karen’s local boss (American named Mark) to us to the equivalent of Russia’s Wal-Mart. Having long heard about the privations of Russian life, I was stunned to be in a store so full of everything a person could need.  I was also shocked to find out a store of this magnitude did not take credit cards.  While it seems like such a minor thing, Karen and I are learning to leave the house with enough Rubles to get through the day.  We have long opted not to carry a lot of cash at home, but this is not even remotely possible in Russia.  Karen and I had heard that Russia was a cash society, but we had no inkling to the extent Russians deal in cash.

Many of the articles and blogs I read while getting ready to come here mentioned both the kindness of Russians towards children and the willingness Russians have in setting your kids strait when they are not toeing the line.  Just this afternoon, a Russian grandmother would not let me or the boys go until the boys put their hats back on while playing in the snow.  Our boys have been scolded by complete strangers (in Russian and in English) for being out of line.  While it is unnerving to be so openly corrected by strangers, I think this is one of the coolest aspects of Russian life I have seen so far.  It is almost as if the culture accepts a hard life, but works to help each other just get through the daily grind of staying warm and keeping kids safe.


 















Sunday provided us our first opportunity to attend any type of festival or cultural event.   We went to a pancake festival being held to say goodbye to winter and hello to spring; the irony of the festival happening in driving snow was not lost by me.  While the snow just came down on us, an entire “ritual” was held that culminated in Winter (in the form of a scarecrow) being burned in effigy.   While we had no idea what was going on, our guide for the day explained it and the local crowd just loved the burning scarecrow. 


The festival took place in Saratov’s Victory Park.  This park has just about every Russian tank, cannon or aircraft used since WWII and it will be cool to come back in the spring to climb on them.   The park is also reputed to have a spectacular view of the city and Volga River, but the view was obscured by the driving snow that joined us as we said goodbye to winter.

Karen started work today, we are interviewing the au pair and school started for the boys today.  We will have more adventures as school, work and the au pair become integrated into our Russian lives, but I think we took the full measure of our first week.



Random Observation of the Week:
Even Russian jazz radio DJs try to sound cooler than you. In the middle of our death defying trip to Embassy in Moscow, the radio is basically background noise of no significance until the DJ comes on.  As soon I heard the studied cool tones of the DJ, I thought this has to be a jazz station. So I looked down at the radio and, sure enough, it was a jazz station. I had a good chuckle over the studied sounds of the jazz DJ permeated through a language that I do yet understand.

Sunday, February 19, 2012

AND WE ARE OFF...


It is 10 pm here in Nana and PopPop’s kitchen on our last night in America and I can finally say we are ready to leave.  We have shipped four boxes prior to leaving and are bringing four suitcases and four backpacks with us on our great adventure.  With two previous delays, we are all just glad to be getting on a plane and going.  After packing, repacking and packing again, it is nice to have the documents necessary to enter Russia  and get to Saratov.

We will be in Moscow on Tuesday, going to the US Embassy in Moscow on Wednesday and flying to Saratov Wednesday night.  We will be moving into our apartment in Saratov immediately and will start to put our life together in Russia, beginning with shopping for necessities on Thursday and interview bilingual au pairs on Friday.  Karen starts back to work next Monday, so we have a lot of stuff to do in the few short days we have to get somewhat settled.   This is all a little unnerving to Karen and I from time to time, but we have luckily managed to freak out at different times.
   
While the delays have been frustrating on some levels, they have turned out to be a three-fold blessing in disguise.  The most important of these blessings is that Zac’s arm was allowed to heal under the care of American doctors; he is now out of all casts and back to being the Bam-Bam we all know and love.  The second is that our laptop (the one we were going to use as our primary link home) died suddenly with six days until we left Richmond.  Our original plans had us out of the country and we would have dealt with this disaster through translators.  Instead, a good friend of ours had us up and running in a new laptop with a day to spare.  The third blessing is that we have a member of Karen’s new team flying with us to Moscow and another that will get us from Moscow to Saratov.
 
The kindness of Karen’s new team is quite representative of all who have been involved with our adventure so far.  Be it the overflowing generosity of our families ensuring our boys have what they need, the Mehfoud Elementary team doing everything it could to help with schooling or our friends offering to keep an eye on things for us, our whole experience has been one of support.

As amazing as our home front support has been, I would be remiss if I did not mention the friendships being developed in Russia through the internet and the people there that are willing to be kind and welcoming. In particular, Ken and Amy Stoltzfus have been incredibly giving of their time, knowledge and contacts with people in Saratov.  I found Amy’s blog from their trip to Saratov for a semester of Fulbright work by Ken.  I tracked  Ken down at his university, sent him a blind email explaining our coming trip and Ken immediately responded.  A couple of emails later, Ken and Amy were speaking to me on the phone and helping every way they could.  We could only have hoped to receive such kindness from people we knew and here we received it from complete strangers.  One side note on Ken and Amy:  They liked life so much in Saratov that they are moving to Lithuania in the Fall so that Ken can pursue his academic career while starting a new department.

Through Ken, we have found many people whom we will soon get to meet in person.  Some are pastors, others are academics and others are just nice people who like the opportunity to meet people from around the world.  All of these new contacts have been incredibly generous in the advice they have sent and in helping us to identify bilingual people who might want to help us with our boys.  Additional contacts have been made via looking up International Student Offices at the four Universities and just sending an email.
It is late now and we have a huge day ahead of us.  I am not sure when internet service will be installed at our apartment, but will I will post the details of our arrival in Russia as soon as possible.  While I am sure we will have some quirky things to report, I am equally sure that we will have wonderful experiences and new friends to introduce as well.